It's called L.O.V.E.

Yesterday’s emotional ‘tough love’ did not come without its challenges. I am not oblivious to the realities facing the youth of the current generation even though I am far removed from them. But I do know that some young people need to be provoked before they will shift it into gear.

Last night I opened a religious pamphlet that has been sitting on my nightstand for a few days now, unread. Without a doubt the God of my universe is astounding, and always gives me the comfort and words I need to soothe my second thoughts at just the right moment. The pamphlet talks about the youth of today and the hard-to-deal-with challenges they face (coincidence? No such thing).

Over this past year, I have been witnessing my grandson retreat further and further into the confines of a singular space. Attempting to get him out into the real world and motivate him into a life outside of himself has been a daunting experience. But, it seems, the more I pushed, the more he resisted, and the more he retreated.

Young people are encouraged into isolation with the proliferation of electronic devices: television; video games; X-Box; computers; cell phones (talking and texting); play station. There is nothing wrong with these things when used in moderation but the amount of time young people spend isolated with electronic ‘marvels’ is detrimental and can lead to self-destruction. “One isolating himself will seek his own selfish longing; against all practical wisdom he will break forth.” (Proverbs 18:1)

The more you close out the outside world, the more concerned you become about yourself. This is not healthy. This is self-destruction.

How can Stephen regard proof if it isn't given? My lack of firmness gave him permission to do nothing. My ultimatum has opened the door to a world of possibilities. My not backing down will force him through that door. Amen!